It’s 4 a.m.
He always sees things differently--my dad. He’s a glass-half-full kind of guy. Last week, we were running an errand when I noticed and commented on the ugliness of the trees along the side of the road. Winter is in full swing and the trees have taken quite a beating. Several ice storms in our area have caused damage. The trees have lost all their leaves and their color.
A Proverbs 31 woman I am not. I have never laid my hand to a spindle or made myself coverings of tapestry. I have never bought a field or planted a vineyard. But when I married a little over two years ago I had such high hopes for myself as a wife. I’d had good examples, I’d read books, and I just knew I was going to be good at it.
By Tiffini Countaway
I hate being an adult! I say this to my husband about once a week. With all the responsibilities of working, keeping a house, family, church, and so on it can be overwhelming at times.
Lessons from the preschooler?? How can it be that Lane is no longer a toddler, but already a “big” boy of 4 years old? oHo This articulate, questioning, and precocious boy sometimes amazes me with his insight. What a joy to learn from him!
So I learned my lesson this morning.
I run out of my house, sprinting to my car like a mad woman; I was running about 5-10 minutes late, which isn’t life threatening but just enough to get my adrenaline pumping and to whisper prayers under my breath that I would meet my desk before my boss did. Usually traffic is pretty steady in Farmington, MI and there’s always some way to beat the light.
“It’s the little things that frustrate me the most.”
I was referring to all the challenges we faced in dealing with our house. We had lived there only a year, and everything from the floors to the appliances had either been replaced or new parts had been added. I was telling a friend about my irritations when he challenged, “But you don’t know what could have really happened.”
Recently I spent several hours at Texas Children's Hospital with my cousin. His 19-year-old daughter had received her second heart transplant earlier that week. There are so many hours spent preparing for the big event--time spent in the doctor's office, time in the laboratory, time spent with counselors helping you deal with the overall situation. I have no idea how I would respond to having to be on a ventilator, three chest tubes, a central line, oxygen and many more wires and tubes that I can’t explain. I wouldn’t make the perfect patient.
As a dad, I have had to learn how to let go of the hands of all three of our sons as they began their own journey in life. It was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through because I have always enjoyed their company and we have bonded closely over the years. They are much more than just sons to me. They have always been a big part of my life, and we have always been a close-knit family.
January 8, 2007
My wife has wanted me to put some stone tile around our garden tub in the master bedroom, so I decided this would be the weekend I would get it done for her. We went to our neighborhood home improvement store on Saturday morning and picked out the tile and some matching grout. After measuring the tub to find the center of the wall, I began applying the adhesive to the wall and started the first row.